Regrets. Like many of us, I’ve had a few, yet I firmly believe dwelling on such things is a wasted emotion, far better to learn from the experience and not make the same mistake twice. I once decided to pull a wheelie in front of hundreds of people queuing for the cinema and exited my motorcycle via the back door with very little grace. The humiliation of that walk of shame to pick up my bike, past so many people laughing and gesticulating, hurt more than the damage to my back and the bite through my own tongue.
Karl Rove former Deputy chief of Staff to President George W Bush once stated, “when we act our actions create our own reality’. In short, we create our own world. I certainly did that day in front of an audience of moviegoers. Ego caused my crash and the damage to that ego is what kept me awake at night in the weeks that followed. Only the passage of time [some 40 years] has helped me reflect and to realise that a bruise to the ego, particularly in the world of motorcycling is no bad thing. It may help us become better, safer riders. It helped me - I have not attempted a wheelie since 1979.
Guy’s first crash involved him stuffing his BMW 800 under the back of a car near Cavendish Square in London and Chris’s first spill occurred when he parted company with his Honda Dominator on a left-hand bend near the Embankment. Poor car driving for the former and diesel for the latter were mitigating factors offered by the boys during a lively exchange on historic crashes at 5Four HQ. We often seek to explain a slip or spill on external factors rather than consider the possibility that we could have done something differently to avoid a crash in the first place. Whilst I am now happy to admit that my lack of skill has been to blame each time my motorcycle and I have gone our separate ways, at the time, I too have looked for other reasons [excuses] to protect my damaged ego.
Team Earpiece in their article Attitude Over Ego – How not To Be A Squid suggest that most motorcyclists have dumped their bike and hurt themselves at least once. The Earpiece team argue that not everyone can or should ride a motorcycle because they cannot or will not learn the skills needed to ride safely or exercise proper judgement. A good motorcyclist learns from their experiences, avoids risky behaviours and becomes a “lifelong motorcycle learner”. Jacob Moss writing in Ride Apart decided to analyse his first motorcycle crash with his friends and motorcycle trainer. Jacob admitted that his ego took a bruising and by discussing the crash and examining the sequence of events leading up to it helped him conclude that the crash was his fault. This reflection inspired him to produce a list of “take home messages” to help fellow motorcyclists avoid potential accidents. Jacob also references an editorial entitled “10 Things I’ve Learned From 10 Motorcycle Crashes” which is far more brutal in its assessment that when it comes to crashes, “it is always the motorcyclist’s fault, no matter what”.
We all hope never to have a crash on our motorcycle. If we do, our egos will most certainly take a hit, yet before we look to blame the gravel, ice or a car driver texting, perhaps we might want to consider anything we could have done better to avoid the incident. Motorcycling is an inherently dangerous activity that requires skills, and those skills need to be maintained, developed and honed every time we ride. Irrespective of what causes a crash, maybe a bruise to the ego is no bad thing. If that is all the damage suffered, we motorcyclists should consider ourselves very lucky. Like any bruise, our ego will heal over time and perhaps we can learn to be better riders as a result of the experience. Stay safe.
References
What I Learned From My First (And Hopefully Last) Motorcycle Crash. Jacob Moss. December 2013. www.rideapart.com
10 Things I’ve Learned From 10 Motorcycle Crashes. HFL Staff. October 25th 2013. www.rideapart.com
Motorcycle Safety Course 401: Attitude Over Ego – How Not To Be A Squid. May 24th 2020. www.earpiece.com.
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